Unforgettable Moments

Published in Freshwater Literary Journal

There have been many unforgettable experiences in my life. Vivid images hang like treasured paintings in the hallowed halls of my memories. Looking back, I reflect on a story of significance and growth, the decisions that shaped what I have become, and moments that I hold close to my heart with a mix of nostalgia and gratitude.

Among these cherished memories are the travel adventures shared with my beloved wife, Lisa. We explored many exciting places, cultures, cities, and landscapes. There was an image of the total lunar eclipse that we witnessed in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, from the 12th-floor balcony of our hotel. We watched a spectacular supermoon pass through Earth's shadow and become a blood-red orb, hanging lifeless in the night sky. It was as though the moon had died. Fortunately, it was resurrected the following night. Once again, its brilliant light reached across the dark Pacific water like a shimmering bridge, symbolically inviting us to explore the expanding mysteries of the cosmos. It was sheer irony that we happened to be vacationing in one of the few places on the planet where one could witness this spectacular phenomenon. As I reflect on this vivid memory, my reminiscence is enlivened with the thrill of discovery, the warmth of companionship, and the meaningful experiences that enriched our lives and allowed us to grow together. 

And then there was that unforgettable wedding day when I sang my heartfelt serenade before our many guests and witnesses. The clouds that threatened to rain on our ceremony parted, and a beam of sunlight magically highlighted my bride. As I reached the high note in the bridge of "A Song For You," her smile, the music, and the sunshine merged to create a harmonious crescendo of love and light that will remain etched on my mind and heart forever.

As a performer, the stage, in general, was the scene of many unforgettable moments. There are images of me at the microphone, with a trumpet, guitar, or percussion instrument, wearing flashy costumes, makeup, and long hair, surrounded by members of a dozen different bands. I remember times when the performance became an out-of-body experience, and there was an inexplicable connection between the musicians on the stage and the audience. In those moments, music was the catalyst that transcended barriers. I don't perform often anymore. Still, these memories remain some of the most vivid strokes on canvas.

In the gallery of my life, there are also darker hues. I recall a fateful night when I was attacked by a gang of thugs on my evening commute. That incident was the ultimate test of my mettle, survival skills, and martial abilities. It was a trial by fire in which I found an unimagined wellspring of strength, courage, and determination. I fought with every scrap of heart and grit I could muster. Somehow, I survived relatively unscathed. Although the torn meniscus in my right knee remains a subtle but constant reminder of my narrowly thwarted fate. The prospect was dire, but against all odds, that day was not my day to die.  

Another canvas showed the image of a young woman on a ledge, poised to jump from the pedestrian walk of the George Washington Bridge. In a twist of fate, our paths had crossed. I stealthfully dismounted my bike, advanced from behind, and caught her just as she let go of the rail. She struggled at first, then went completely limp, and we both would have fallen except for the railing between us. I saved her life that day. However, holding her in my arms, waiting for authorities to arrive, her aura intermingled with mine. I had never experienced such despair before. What had driven her to take her own life, I wondered, and would she consider me her guardian angel or a meddling villain in her future story? I did not know. Still, this image was a mosaic of empathy and compassion. 

"Just let me go," she pleaded weakly.

"I can't do that," I said above the din of traffic speeding past behind us. "This is not your day to die." 

Of course, this recollection of memorable moments would not be complete without recalling the race that tested the limits of endurance – the Race Across America. Crossing the finish line with my eight-person team and seven crew members after three thousand and five miles, seven days, nine hours, and twenty-seven minutes of continuous racing to break a record for the fastest rookie team to complete in the twenty-seven-year history of the event was a monumental accomplishment. Pushing through exhaustion and sleep deprivation to accomplish that goal was a testament to resilience, teamwork, and irrepressible spirit. 

And then, of course, there was the mountaintop. On one of my many annual solo sojourns into the wilderness, after fasting on water for several days and climbing to the top of the region's highest peak. The ominous clouds finally unleashed their full fury after I sat to meditate. Now, everyone knows a mountaintop is not a sensible place to be in a thunderstorm, but driven by the strength of intuition, I was beyond common sense just then. The rain came down, lightning flashed, and thunder echoed through the canyons. 

In the center of that storm, I experienced a tranquil convergence, a serene alignment of internal and external forces that bestowed a sense of heightened awareness and connection like I'd never felt before. 

The driving force behind my quest to capture these memories now in words is the belief that every life is an adventure. 

"A life unexamined is not worth living," said Socrates. But I say, "Every life lived is worth examining." 

At the end of each day, I reflect on what has transpired, what I have yet to transcend, and any truths I may have ascertained. I record any pivotal events and the moments that have left indelible imprints upon a story that is uniquely mine. 

As I stroll through the gallery of my life and examine the pictures that adorn the walls, I see they are not frozen or fixed space-time events. The memories expand or contract to fit my ever-evolving perspective of truth. The colors, textures, and emotions bring each frame vividly back to life. From the internal and external adventures with my life partner and wife to personal triumphs, encounters with unexpected dangers, and moments of genuine connection with nature and humanity, these brushstrokes have given my life depth, meaning, and a beauty that transcends time.